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A Harpo playing harp

This is story quite long. 

A Prayer & A Movie


   As I told many people, it started with a prayer and a movie. I knew I needed help in my healing, but had no one to turn to, so I said a prayer- it's not that I only pray when I'm in trouble. Many times our prayers are not answered, or, the answer isn't what we expect; this is what happened to me.
   I knew I needed to wait, and let the Powers That Be handle my request, feeling confident that someone would come to me. Then one day in October of '2005, I was channel surfing, and I saw HIM, the man who was to help me heal. You wouldn't think someone as goofy as him would've been chosen, but among his other traits, it's that goofyness that makes him the perfect person for the job. 
 

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   Well, I saw him, and, though I had an idea who he was, I didn't connect the face with the character, and he was quite a character off stage, too! So I watched the movie, and saw him play his harp, and it was right then that I knew my life would soon change. I felt it instantly- not only was I enchanted, but deeply intrigued.
   WHO was this silent character?  Who was this almost angelic, childlike, mischevous, somewhat ethereal man who could whistle like a bird, and steal my heart, though he's long gone from our midst? I just had to know, so I looked him up on the internet- and there he was. I bought his autobiography, "Harpo Speaks," because I wanted to know the man under the wig, who's eloquent silence had captured my heart.
   Although I must admit I had all the emotions of a starry eyed fan, I also felt more. My emotions were tempered with realism.

The Skit

   Little did I know, the day I went into that chat room, I'd be writing the skit that landed me in Vaudeville, but there I was, roleplaying as Harpo Marx, with the encouragement of the group owner, who loves the Marx Brothers. It wasn't a happy time in that group, or the previous one Harpo and I were in, because not many interacted with us, but we made the best of it. I played myself as well as Harpo, and, as I tell my friends, jokingly, "I'm NOT schitzo, there really are two of me!" But anyway....
   So "we" went to the 2nd group and set up house there, Harpo lived with me, in a magical realm, similar to Avalon, which was protected by a magical mist. Harpo also had his own village, where he recreated the Algonquin Hotel, a place which held many happy memories for him. Adjoining the hotel, he built the place he often vacationed at, Neshobe Island, and later, he added his own golf course. In his village, he held tournaments and parties. His brothers came by to join the tourneys, and we had lots of fun.
   The sad part of it all was the lack of interaction- I played all the parts, Harpo, his brothers, and myself, among the cast of characters I invented. Despite the lack of visitors, it was this very thing that inspired me to create the story which led to the skit, which led me to the happiest summer of my life.
   One thing led to another, which affected his voice; he played it out. I wrote it as I was typing, but something told me not to give many details. Then I got a wacky idea to do the actual skit in person, and I knew just the place to do it...
   But first, I needed a costume....

Magic and Costumes

   Where else but a costume shop, would I get a wig and tophat? There were places online, but I wanted to see them in person. Nobody had a coat like Harpo's, so I had to have one made. That came later.
   So I went to this wonderful place, and it was lucky I did- the tophat I found was the only callaspable one on the shelf. It didn't take me long to figure out how to bend it like Harpo's hat. My first wig was red, but I liked the style better than the blonde ones. The second wig was blonde, and I got it cut to look as much like his as possible.  My third wig is the best style and most comfortable. 
   A night or 2 before going to to the shop, I imagined the skit would have some magic in it- afterall, he did have a magical coat, so I mentioned it to the woman who worked there. The store was also a magic shop, it had lots of various supplies and instructional materials for stage magic. When i told the lady my idea, she said she'd tell her husband, a stage magician, and see if he'd have any ideas for me. She liked what I told her, and said I had something good there.
   Little did I know what all this would be leading to..... 
   A few weeks after I talked to the woman, I met the magician, and found out he owned the store, and the woman I had met was his wife, who worked there while he went to his regular job. He does magic in various places, as well. By the time I had met him, he knew about my skit, and really liked it, too. He gave me some ideas, and we talked for quite awhile. During one of our discussions, I learned he performed in a re-creation of Vaudeville, not far from the store. I had planned on going to a show, so I could see his act, never suspecting the turn of events that would happen a few months away.

The Arts Center

   This wonderful place is really what gave me the confidence to play Harpo in public. Throughout my life, I'd played various characters, all for fun, but never as a performance. I decided to try the skit at the center's annual fundraiser, and soon got their permission. I'd been to this place before, attended classes and social events. The director knew me a little, and, though she retired, she stayed on in another position. She LOVED the idea of me playing Harpo, and one day, I came in, with my 2nd wig, to show her. She wanted me to play it right there, at their nightly drop in time. I wasn't ready for that, but she gently encouraged me, offering to go in with me to explain about Harpo and his brothers. So, in I went, minus the wig.
   We talked to the young people there, most hadn't heard of the Marx Brothers. I explained a little, too, and said I'd love to put the wig on and play Harpo for them. I even got their help with a couple of my pantomimes. They said they wouldn't mind, so I did! They loved it! I played it to the max, interacting with them, and getting lots of laughs. Harpo was an instant hit!
   The next week, I brought the tophat and horn to the center, along with the wig. I didn't have the coat yet. Harpo came to drop in night, and the director introduced him, telling them he couldn't talk, but talked with his horn, and through gestures. We had a blast, but sometimes I had to talk to her, when she didn't understand my pantomimes. This confused the kids, especially one, a couple of weeks later, but we got them to understand I was just playing a character, and sometimes I came in as myself, so they'd know me, too.
   It was also at this place that I met the lady who would help me fix up the coat I bought at a thrift store a few weeks or so after my first appearance there as Harpo. We met at a workshop she hosted. We've gotten to know each other a little since then. She also altered some pants for me, trimed my wig a little, and has offered her services for free. Through her, I'd also meet a professional clown, who my new friend told about me as Harpo. She wanted to meet me, and I hoped I would make another friend.  After almost a year, we finally met.  She taught me a few things and gave me some ideas, though I don't see Harpo as a clown, and, due to our differing opinions on that, because I don't consider him a clown, nor myself, she stopped teaching me and I lost a potential friend, too.  Awhile later, she did help me with transportation, and had a video made of my act, for me to evaluate, which was done in the back of the store where she had given me some lessons.  Seeing that video really helped me see what others see and I am still amazed- I felt like I was watching him!  Someday I hope to make another video, this time in front of an audience. 
   I also got help from others I met there.  This awesome center of creativity has become a launching pad for my new career.  It was the happiest spring of my life, leading into my happiest summer yet.
   In June, the harp came, and, though it's smaller than Harpo's was, it has a beautiful sound. Quickly I taught myself a song, though it wasn't the one I had planned on playing, it came out better than my original idea. The arrangements are very simple, and could be better, I feel, but people enjoy them anyway. I'll never be even half the musician Harpo was, but he'd been playing for many years by the time he was 50.
   In July, shortly before their fundraiser, I previewed the skit for them. By then, I had my coat, and some great props, one of which was my best friend's idea. I got help making it, from him, as well as the creative assistance from someone at the center, who was also the office manager. She also offers classes in various crafts. She saw the skit, too, along with others, including a teen volunteer. They love my favorite prop, the one I got help with. They helped me with other props, too. Everyone loves that one!
   I'm glad they got to know Harpo before the event; it helped me in my confidence to play him, as well as familiarizing them with who he was and how he communicated. They knew he could really talk, but wouldn't on stage or in public. After the preview, I explained all that, after the director's explaination.
   Anywhere there's creativity is truly a magical place also.


Magic Class

   A few days after the harp came, I paid the magician to give me a magic lesson. I wasn't sure which trick I'd use in my act, but I had a few favorites I wanted to try. He had shown me a few things, and I had also bought a video. By the time of the class, I knew what I wanted to do, and asked him to help me, especially with one particular illusion I was having trouble getting right.
   It was during that wonderful hour that he told me he had mentioned my act to the Vaudeville Director. If I was interested, I was invited to call for an interview. It was a complete surprise to me, mostly because the magician hadn't even seen my skit, yet, but from what I told him, he thought it was good enough for Vaudeville!

Vaudeville

   It took me awhile to finally connect with the director. In the meantime, I was preparing for the fundraiser, getting my costume fixed the way I wanted it, and practicing the harp. Many hours of practice went into it, and after a month, I had 2 songs down, well enough to play in public, with others I worked on, still needing practice.
   The night of my audition went very well. I showed it to the director and choregraphapher. They laughed a lot, gave me a nice applause, and sincere compliments, then welcomed me to Vaudeville. They gave me some suggestions, too, which I really appreciated.
  The audition wasn't at the theatre, which I had never been inside of, but I finally saw it, at my first rehearsal there. Many people had told me how wonderful it is, and they were Right!
   My first rehearsal went well. I got more suggestions, and a few notes to bring home. After two rehearsals, I found myself facing a live audience on opening night. My performance was good, judging by their applause, though my second one was even better.
   Harpo got his start in Vaudeville, so it seems fitting that I should find myself there, too. Neither of us had planned to be there, it just happened. There's another Marx connection to Vaudeville, too, in two of the performers, one playing an uncle of the Marx Brothers, and the other played someone else Harpo would've met back then.
   For personal reasons, I chose not to call myself Harpo Marx, but instead, to be known as "A Harpo." It is with deep admiration, respect, and love that I made this choice, because, there'll never be another Harpo Marx, and it doesn't feel right for me to use his name, as much as I wanted to, especially at Vaudeville. For awhile, the name on my cards was "A Harpo Marx." It wasn't my idea, but as long as the A is there, I said ok.

Jam Fest

   The whole day at the jam fest was totally awesome! "A Harpo" was mentioned in the local paper, for this event, as well as for Vaudeville. The jam fest article featured a large photo of me playing harp, taken at the preview at the center. Printed schedules had my name on it, as well as ads posted around town, with a small pic I let them use. I printed my own ads, too, some of which were also posted.
   That day was one of the greatest highlights of my life! I had been listed as being there most the day to entertain them with "Harpo's funny antics," and they weren't disappointed. As I prepared for the event, I thought of things I could do, and everything came together that day. People laughed, commented, and enjoyed Harpo's presence, children, animals, and adults alike. It was a day I'll always remember very fondly.
 

horn on pole

   Since I began playing Harpo, I've lost much of my shyness. Harpo also had helped me through the holiday blues for the past 2 years. He's just the person I needed to help in my healing, and, if I could thank him, I gladly would. The best way I can thank him is by playing him well. I think he would like my portrayal of him, and the skit.
   Among all the amazing events that happened to me during those beginning months, is the wonderful fact that nobody questioned my abilities, despite me being disabled. Many said I'm a natural for the part. Among the complilments I've gotten, are comments like, "My Harpo Spirit shines through," from the Vaudeville Director. Others tell me how good I am at playing him, and a few thought I could be a reincarnation of him, but that's impossible, though I'm deeply touched by the sentiment. They can see and feel my connection with him, especially when I wear that costume.
   I am deeply honored to be able to play him this way. Harpo has become a part of me, and always will be. I am Eternally Thankful to have my prayers answered, and extremely grateful to all the Wonderful people who encouraged me and helped me not only bring Harpo to life, but to share him with others. Harpo will live on as long as we remember him.

  Harpo Marx changed my life forever. it took me about 2 years to get the courage to tell his family how much it means to me to be playing him, and how wonderful my life's become, all thanks to a prayer and a movie.  I wrote to one of his sons, Bill, though I don't expect a reply.  Just knowing he might read it and know how his wonderful dad changed my life forever, is good enough for me.
There will NEVER be another Harpo Marx- he was one of a kind.

A Harpo
My 1st wig
My 1st wig

   My 1st wig was red.  I liked it because it looked good on me, but it was dark, and the tophat didn't show up well in the pictures, so I changed to a blond one, though I don't look as good in that color.  Harpo's wigs were red, even the ones that looked blond.  Remember, those films were black and white; also, if you've seen the movies and read about them, his hair was always referred to as being blond.  I love the styles of my blond wigs, the 3rd one is the best, and most comfortable.